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  Last week, every type news media on the planet weighed in on the President views on same sex couples. The magic word was "MARRIAGE." Think for a minute! What is MARRIAGE? Yeah, you have your views on that too! And, you'll run to the Bible, pick out one scripture and jump up and down on it saying "It says it right here!" All the while leaving out the most important point: what marriage really is! Marriage, pure and simple, is the process of bringing two people together to carry out God's commandment to all His creations: be fruitful and multiply. That coming together is a bond without cracks, gaps, or weaknesses. It was from the beginning, an inseparable bond, stronger and greater than the bond for parents and siblings. It was to last for life: however, because of sin, a way out was given; a relief valve to relieve the suffering when one partner broke God's Law by committing adultery. But, it was not the way God designed it. It's disturbing to see people use the Bible as justification to judge other people. It doesn't matter what religion you practice: the instructions guiding that religion, be it the Bible or some other document, are not there for you to make judgment about other people. The instructions are there for you to use to guide your own life in becoming what the religion says you ought to be. The instructions doesn't tell you to measure yourself against other humans, but measure how close you are to the Supreme Being of your religion. I hear this all the time: My God is a forgiving God! My God is a loving God! My God has no respect of person! Well, who are you? How close are your ways to your God ways? Loving? Forgiving? Love without respect of person? Why then, since the God of your religion, didn't give you the right to judge; are you judging? Why are you running to your instructions, (Bible, or other) reading what you can't do if you want to be a part of your God' programs, and using that to condemn others, especially when you are breaking some other part of the Bible. It's hypocritical, at best, to cite the Bible, in this case, marriage, to judge who should and who shouldn't get married based on the Bible' definition of sin. Defining homosexuality as a sin, is not telling anyone to judge those practicing it, but rather, it says, homosexuality is not a part of God' program. You don't judge, you don't use it to make others judge, you do what the Bible tells you to do: Love, without respect of person. What kind of field would medicine be if all doctors used their training (instructions) to go around judging other doctors on whether they are right or wrong, good or bad, instead of practicing according to their own training?  Think about this: while you are ranting and raving about marriage between those practicing homosexuality, because the Bible identifies it as a sin; what about lying, adultery, fornication, cheating, deceiving, hating, malice, envy, blaspheming, and the full range of sins identified by the Bible; should you rant and rave that all sinners should not marry? You certainly have lied, (all men have lied) so, why are you married, or, thinking of marriage? You certainly are not walking on water! And you certainly have sinned.

  The Bible contain instruction for you to measure how close you are to living your life the way God says you must live in order to be His true follower. It doesn't tell you to measure how close others are to being His true followers, and to judge them according to your understanding. The job of all men is to love. That is, want the very best for everyone, and do all you can to make it happen. The President wants the best for all people, and is doing what he can to make it happen. News Week Magazine, the editors, its owners and all that believe the garbage it's spreading is hypocritical at best. If they were decent, loving, human beings, they would want the very best for all people--they don't!  And, since they are using sin as a rationale for not getting married, none of them should be married, or, ever think of marrying. You are not perfect; so don't try passing yourself off as being any better than the homosexuals you are judging! I'm man; I am married to a woman for pushing forty years. My children are married to the opposite sex; but, I, my wife, and my children do not judge others, because we understand that The Bible tells us to use it for measuring how well we are conforming to it dictates. That Jesus told us not to separate, but let all grow together. 

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